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    2/27/2007

    John's birthday is tomorrow (Feb 28th)

    I have been trying to decide what to do for John's birthday that will reflect how I feel about him.  After 35 years of being together (counting our dating time), I have just about run out of things that he wants or needs.  He is a person who does not need or want much at all (as am I - I guess that is one of the reasons we get along so well), but I want to do something special for him, especially this year as both his mom and dad have passed, it has been a rough year with Chris and the leukemia, and John also had his first major (actually any kind of) surgery recently.  He is nearing the end of his recuperation period, so that is good, but he is bored since he still has to take it easy.  We did go to the Home and Garden Show for a couple hours this weekend and it was nice to just stroll through looking at the displays.  Karina, Frank and Keegan also went with us.  There was an Egyptian display there boasting of having "museum quality exact replicas of King Tut's Treasures".  Well, I saw the real exhibit, and it was not the same at all.  There were a few pieces that looked similar, but most of it was replicas of other Egyptian pieces from different tombs or collections, and some were definitely not exact.  They were worth seeing though since it was not costing any more than the entry fee of $9.00 (which we did not have to pay for because we were given free tickets).  Karina and I are going to see Edward Scissorhands at the Fabulous Fox Theatre tonight.  It is supposed to be really good.  We are both looking forward to it.  There is no dialog, only music.  Here is the link: 
    http://www.edwardscissorhandstour.com/  I will let you know how it was later.
    Well, I am still pondering what to do for my healing husband... I am sure something will come to me - it always does! 
    I hope your day (or evening) is pleasant.  hugs!
    2/14/2007

    Happy Valentine's Day!

       Happy Valentine's Day! 
     
        
     
    Hope you got to spend a bit of time with someone you care about, whether it is in person, on the phone, through instant messages... 
    I was not feeling well today, so John and I spent the day together just relaxing and recuping.  We have a white blanket outside but it is a bit too cold to go for a walk with the way the wind was whipping through here - sideways snow instead of the usual peaceful floating down is a bit much.  The university closed early yesterday as did the shuttle service to the off-site lot, so I had moments to close up shop and get the heck out.  It was a madhouse getting home, but I made it.  I know I put my fellow workers and boss in a bit of a bind, as I left some things go (well, I had to) and then did not come in today.  Ah well, I will be there tomorrow.  It is supposed to be 2 degrees tomorrow morning and the streets will be slick as anything, but I will be careful as always.  John is healing and was glad for the company as it does get a bit monotonous when a person is waiting for the healing process to get to the point that things can go back to normal.  How well I know that!!!  I felt better enough a couple hours ago to make some dinner (personal bacon-pineapple pizzas using whole wheat flour tortillas), and they tasted pretty good (either we were hungry or my experiment was a success).
    Have a wonderful day, and keep the love you feel in your heart today alive throughout the year.
    Hugs! 
     
     
    2/7/2007

    John's dad, Chris, and other items

    Hi all, I have some sad news. John's dad (my father-in-law), 89 years, passed away yesterday after another bout with pneumonia (actually double) together with congestive heart failure and some tumors in his bladder. John and I were with him, as was his wife Joann and her friend Kathy. We stayed at the hospital / hospice ward at his side for almost 30 hours, as we knew it was coming and wanted to be with him. His funeral is tomorrow (Thursday) and then he will be cremated. I have already been there when someone has passed, but the others had not, so it was good that I could be there with them. He never got to go home except for Christmas Day for a few hours, but stayed at the convalescent home until the latest pneumonia attack about 1 week or so ago.  (See 11/4/06 blog entry).
    Chris on the other hand is doing well at this time. His pneumonia (yes he has had another bout of it since last writing) has been thwarted and he is still on steroids for a bad infection along with his chemo treatments (which have been upped a bit for now but not the massive doses he went through for months). I watched both Chris and Clayton on Sunday morning while Marty and Joan went to a group hypnosis session to quit smoking. I hope it works, as they spend over $200 a month on smoking habits and they do NOT have that money to spend.
    John is doing okay after his double inguinal hernia operation on Jan 25. He is not supposed to have been doing all he did this week, but it could not be helped as he wanted to be with his dad. (Another reason I was there the entire time - I needed to keep an eye on my hubby!) He is a bit sore, and as exhausted physically as me, more emotionally in ways, but we will both be fine.
    All else is fine in our world. I hope it is well in yours too. Hugs!